... I'm just sayin'...

Thursday, February 03, 2005

 
Last night I got a call from an old friend. After we had both left our old jobs, I never thought that we would ever talk again unless I initiated communication. He's the type of guy that never calls... ever. Talking to him was great, especially since I was so surprised that he had called. And even though we might not talk all the time or be the best of friends, the one thing I will always be grateful for is that this guy, without fail, has my back.

I remember one time, I was really upset at work, and was nearly in tears. I wasn't sure what I wanted to hear from anybody, but after talking to him and telling him what had happened, he had responded with this - 'you want me to f' him up?' And that did it for me - it made me laugh, made me feel protected, and most importantly - it didn't make me feel alone.

I think that's what I truly value in my friends - those people that defend you, support you, and 'have your back,' so to speak.

And if I remember correctly, there is a saying that goes something like a friend will blah blah blah, but a true friend will help you get rid of the body... (I have a terrible memory). Now that's what I'm talking about!





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